I am reflecting today on how striving toward personal health, or anything else for that matter, sometimes conflicts with others' goals or desires. I have a strong desire to have harmonious relationships with others; however, conflict is inevitable. Over the course of my training in psychology, I have been exposed to science and philosophical writings about conflict and know that conflict is not always bad. In fact, conflict can be very positive if we can position ourselves to approach conflict healthily and see it as an opportunity for growth instead of as destructive.
So, in the midst of interpersonal conflict today, I am going to spend some reflective time thinking about my values in relationship with others and my values in striving toward personal health. My hope for myself and for others is that we can attempt to approach conflict lovingly, mindful of others and mindful of ourselves.
I would love to be encouraged by hearing others' ideas about this topic. If it's in your heart to post something, please post it. My heart is heavy this morning, and I need some inspiration.
With much love and peace to all,
Shelly
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I know your heart and it is kind and loving and compasionate. Though you have chosen a path which is not easy, I believe it will pay off in the long run. You have been an inspiration to me as I watch you work so hard to achieve something that is important to you. And I also know why it is important. You do this to help secure your families future, especially for your wonderful daughter. Baby we may not be doing this thing the way others do or the way others want us to, but we are doing this the best way we know how and are not intentionally trying to hurt anyone. We are just trying to provide for our family. I love you babe! And I know you are going to achieve great things in your career and as a human being. Baby you are the greatest!
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